I am Dr. Victoria Z, your sexpert, dating coach and relationship advisor. Formerly a Playboy Playmate and Penthouse Pet of the Year, I now have a Ph.D in Clinical Psychology and post-graduate certification in Sex Therapy. I am the author of the premier book on meeting, dating and hooking up with hot women (see below), write a monthly sex and love advice column for Penthouse magazine, and have authored several other books on love, sex and dating, including the best guide to sexual satisfaction you can find (see below). You can also listen to me give sex advice on my own talk show The Sex Connection on Sirius Satellite Radio.

Talk to her! July 10 - 2006 Verbal reinforcement is particularly important for women. Unlike male sexual arousal, female responsiveness depends less on visual stimuli and more on her emotional state and the situational ambiance. In our society which idolizes perpetual youth and often sets unrealistic beauty standards, many women feel insecure about their looks and self-conscious about their naked bodies. When a woman does not feel sexy she is unlikely to be in the mood for sex. To increase her sexual responsiveness, tell her that you find her beautiful and sexy, that she turns you on and that you want to enjoy every part of her body before making love to her. Have a great time! Dr. Z More Weekly Tips >>

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